So I truly began to make fitness a lifestyle, after having met an incredible man in amazing shape. Probably the biggest motivator was that he didn't ASK me to lose weight, and truly liked me as I was. This acceptance pushed me harder, as I wanted to take his breath away everytime I entered the room, as he did mine.

Well....sadly, our journey together ended yesterday.

USUALLY I would wallow in sorrow. USUALLY I would eat myself out of house and home. USUALLY I would completely forget every good habit I have learned and sink back into my old ways.

But you know what!? NO! I can be an even BETTER me than when I met him. I can attract an even better person with my determination, banging body, and persistence.

This is who I am now! This is who I want to be forever. And I thank him, because in the end I received more happiness from this break-up than ever before.

Kahesha