I am a 51 year old mother of 3. I have been married for 17 years. I am sad to say that my kids are growing up quickly with out a positive role model in me.  How can I expect my kids to get off their booties and exercise if I am not out there already.  I want to be around and see my kids graduate.  I want to hike a mountain with my kids some day. I am tired of being over weight and and more than anything I want to be in shape and be healthy.  I need to do this for me, and me alone.  I can no longer want this to please my hubby or my kids, sure that would be a big bonus, but If I don't want this for me....it's never going to happen.  Now is the time and I am determined!  My family loves me just the way I am, but I am definately excited for the changes they are going to see in me.