In my opinion my husband is fine... I mean his pants are 36..the same as our teenage boys!! He's a vegetarian, used to run, but still works his butt off so it's not that he has stopped activity. I am way too afraid of hurting his feelings, by suggesting he do anything, cause I DO love him just the way he is.
I feel like he deserves to be with someone who he can't wait to see at the end of the day, who drives him crazy, who he 'wants' to be with....because he loves her, not because of her weight or her cute butt or whatever. It's really become an issue for me. I don't even like watching sexy scenes on tv when he's there, like it's the elephant in the room.
Before... we were hot and heavy and everyone knew it...so people still jab him in the ribs and wink at me and talk about how much fun the newlyweds must be having. Ugh.
The next question....he's VERY affectionate. Kisses me, holds my hand, tells me he loves me, snuggles in bed... but he's killing me & our marriage.
I feel like he deserves to be with someone who he can't wait to see at the end of the day, who drives him crazy, who he 'wants' to be with....because he loves her, not because of her weight or her cute butt or whatever. It's really become an issue for me. I don't even like watching sexy scenes on tv when he's there, like it's the elephant in the room.
Before... we were hot and heavy and everyone knew it...so people still jab him in the ribs and wink at me and talk about how much fun the newlyweds must be having. Ugh.
The next question....he's VERY affectionate. Kisses me, holds my hand, tells me he loves me, snuggles in bed... but he's killing me & our marriage.