I am lost. I want to succeed. I tried to follow a variety diet! I cannot do variety! I overeat. I need to stick to dull diet, one with very few changes, options. So... I need opinions.. so here goes.

Breakfast:

1 egg, scrambled with spray of olive oil, 1/4 cup sautéed onions, 1 sautéed mushroom, 1/4 cup green pepper, 1/4 cup diced tomato, pepper.

or

Oatmeal (how much?), Flax seeds,  Almonds 10, 1 cup Soy Milk (light 60 calories per cup), 1 tab of butter, diced 2 inch apple.

Lunch:

Lettuce, cucumber, 1 T dressing (40 calories), 1/4 cup grated cheese -- not packed, Tilapi 2 oz or 1/2 cup beans

Dinner:

Salmon 2 oz, 2 cups greens (spinach, collard, whatever... ) with vinegar, onion, touch of sweetener, 1 pat butter.

or

Chicken with vegetables. Mix of onion, celery, green pepper, garlic, mushroom, tomato, and... frozen vegs, usually Birds Eye Normandy Mix.

Soy milk (60 cal to cup) in coffee.. as my creamer.

Snacks 3 a day:

one apple a day, if not in oatmeal, then as a snack

nuts

celery sticks, carrots, any raw veg, I can grab and run with.

Greek yougart (non fat) blended with berries, sweetner, soy milk, and put in 2 oz freezer pops- no more than one a day, LOL Maybe my last snack.. as a reward for... something.

I will measure Soy Milk, nuts, etc out daily ... so I don't go over limits.

Water, Tea, Coffee  I do drink water daily, and it is measured each day, so .. I know I drank what I need to every day.. Tea and Coffee do not count, so are in addition to my 8 glasses of water.

Each week.. I will treat myself to red meat and either a small potato, or rice mix, IF I HAVE STUCK TO MY DIET ALL WEEK..  Not based on amount of wieght lost, just what my actions have been. If I make it through this next week, better than the past one, I will add an activity plan, but for now.. I am going to focus on what goes in my mouth!

LOL, and a daily plus, I willl ride my HD around what I call the Partlow Triangle each evening!

Now tell me what is wrong... with my plan, please.. I will daily post  daily how I am doing. I do not have a support system, I need someone to kick my ass when I don't do this right, and pat my back when I do and I am willing to share my phone number with the right person(s). I want to be accountable. I need to win this battle with ME...

So, I had better post before, .. I over think this.

Thanks for your time!

Juanita