So, you think you will be horrified to find out that your husband only likes you when you are thin? I hear you when you say that it is scary to find out that he doesn't love you for you. BUT, turn the scenario around. Maybe the weight is making you less energetic, sad, unmotivated, discouraged. What if you are, unknowingly, giving off "not tonight" signals. If you (or I) don't feel well how can we feel sexy. Lose the weight girl! Give him the chance to prove you wrong. You will feel better and your happiness will be an awesome turn-on.
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